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Vows

I’m performing the wedding of a good friend tonight and after presiding over a hundred weddings or so over the years, I decided to re-write the vows using scripture and real life marital issues cut straight from the pages of real marriage. If you are yet to be married, make sure you’re marrying someone who can actually say these words and mean them. If you are married, it’s always a healthy practice to re-commit to one another by re-stating what you’re really committed to.

“I (groom), choose you (bride) to be my wife. I will do my best to love you, the way Jesus loves his bride, the church.  I will encourage you daily. I will provide for you, emotionally, physically, and spiritually. I will pray for you. I will listen to you. I will respect you as a woman. I will honor you as a child of the Most High God. I will be gentle towards you.  I will challenge you to grow in your faith. I will hold you accountable to a high standard of purity. I will forgive you. I will apologize to you. I will lead you with humility. Our family’s spiritual development will be my highest priority. I will die to my wants and desires. I will surround myself with Godly friends who make Godly decisions. I will have accountability in my life. I will hide God’s Word in my heart daily. I will not settle for anything other than God’s best for us. I will not be arrogant. I will not raise my voice at you. I will not cheat on you. I will love you for better, for worse; for richer, for poorer; in sickness and in health; until we are separated by death. God is my witness. I give you my promise, and I give you my heart.”

“I (bride), choose you (groom), to be my husband. I will do my best to love you, the way Jesus sacrificially loves me. I will trust you. I will ask God to give you wisdom as you lead us. I will follow you with humility. I will encourage you daily. I will respect you as a man. I will honor you as a child of the Most High God. I will serve you. And I will serve with you. I will be your friend. I will challenge you to grow in your faith. I will hold you accountable to a high standard of purity. I will provide for you emotionally, physically, and spiritually. I will forgive you. I will apologize to you.  Our home will be my priority. I will be a Proverbs 31 woman. I will surround myself with Godly friends who make Godly decisions. I will have accountability in my life. I will hide God’s Word in my heart daily. I will not criticize you. I will not compare you to other men. I will not cheat on you. I will love you for better, for worse; for richer, for poorer; in sickness and in health; until we are separated by death. God is my witness. I give you my promise, and I give you my heart.”

Change

If leaves can change and fill the world with beauty so can people…

John 6

In preparation for the upcoming “Hungry” series I want to challenge/encourage you to read all of John 6 in two translations. You can click on both translations below:

NIV

The Message

And commit to memory John 6:63 which says, “The Spirit gives life; the flesh counts for nothing.”

 

In his book, The Hole in Our Gospel, Richard Stearns writes,

“There is so much at stake. The world we live in is under siege—three billion are desperately poor, one billion hungry, millions are trafficked in human slavery, ten million children die needlessly each year, wars and conflict are wreaking havoc, pandemic diseases are spreading, ethnic hatred is flaming, and terrorism is growing. Most of our brothers and sisters in Christ in the developing world live in grinding poverty. And in the midst of this stands the church of Jesus Christ in America, with resources, knowledge, and tools unequaled in the history of Christendom. I believe that we stand on the brink of a defining moment. We have a choice to make. When historians look back in one hundred years, what will they write about the nation with 340,000 churches? What will they say of the Church’s response to the greatest challenges of our time—AIDS, poverty, hunger, terrorism, and war? Will they say that these authentic Christians rose up courageously and responded to the tide of human suffering, that they rushed to the front lines to comfort the afflicted and to douse the flames of hatred? Will they write of an unprecedented outpouring of generosity to meet the urgent needs of the world’s poor? Will they speak of the moral leadership and compelling vision of our leaders? Will they write that this, the beginning of the 21st century, was the Church’s finest hour? Or will they look back and see a church too comfortable, insulated from the pain of the rest of the world, empty of compassion, and devoid of deeds? Will they write about the people who stood by and watched while a hundred million people died of AIDS and fifty million children were orphaned, of Christians who lived in luxury and self-indulgence while millions died for lack of food and water? Will schoolchildren read in disgust about a Church that had the wealth to build great sanctuaries but lacked the will to build schools, hospitals, and clinics? In short, will we be remembered as the Church with a gaping hole in our gospel? More is at risk than the lives of the poor and orphaned. The heart and soul of the Church of Jesus Christ, the very integrity of our faith and our relevance in the world, hang in the balance.”

Southland family…I love you because I know you understand what is at stake…I know your heart for the poor is real…I know your love for Jesus is real…so don’t forget to sign up today! I John 2:6 says, “Whoever claims to live in him must walk as Jesus did.”

The Dollar Club

For those of you who don’t attend Southland, we have a very fun club that only takes a dollar to join, thus its name—the dollar club.

Your church needs to start one. Every week, we challenge everyone in our church family to give an extra dollar. It’s funny how everyone in the U.S. loves to talk about the value of an American dollar, but I’m not so sure everyone really understands just how much good a single dollar can accomplish. So, challenge everyone to pony up an extra buck each week and then give it all away each week.

Here’s how it goes down at Southland…we take our weekly attendance and based on how many people come to church over the course of the weekend, that’s how many dollars we give away the following week. For example, we had 11,200 people this past weekend, so we gave $11,200 to a widow in need this week. Each week we have the joy of surprising a complete stranger in our community with a large sum of money that has absolutely no strings attached. We’ve paid for people’s surgeries, put roofs on houses, helped people purchase a reliable car, pay off debt, keep the bank from foreclosing on their house…on and on we could go. Don’t let all the naysayers and non-generous people tell you all the reasons why it won’t work! Just do it! Because guess what? It really does work! And guess what else? It’s a blast! In a down economy, there is nothing better than being ridiculously generous.

Weekend Video

As I said this weekend, the wedding feast of the Lamb will be a celebration unlike any you’ve ever seen!

Fear

This past weekend in his message, Mike referenced a quote from a new book by Max Lucado entitled Fearless and I’ve been thinking about, praying through it, and applying it to areas where I tend to live by fear instead of faith. Here it is:

When fear shapes our lives safety becomes our god. When safety becomes our god, we worship the risk-free life. Can the safety lover do anything great? Can the risk-averse accomplish noble deeds? For God? For others? No. The fear-filled life cannot love deeply. Love is risky. They cannot give to the poor. Benevolence has no guarantee of return. The fear-filled life cannot dream wildly. What if their dreams sputter and fall from the sky? The worship of safety emasculates greatness. No wonder Jesus wages such a war against fear.”

What fear has hobbled you this week? Fear of rejection? Fear of not fitting in? Not being liked? Fear of failure? Fear of letting go? Fear of being honest with yourself about a current relationship? Fear of admitting you are struggling? Whatever the fear is, identify it by writing it on a piece of paper and beside it write in bold letters the most frequently voiced command in the Bible, which is “DO NOT BE AFRAID.”

As I face my fears, I’ll be praying for you…

Heaven

What Will Heaven Really Be Like?

There is so much we could explore on this subject, but let me narrow this entry down to a few things a professor of mine (Kenny Boles) taught me years ago about heaven.

America’s outspoken atheist, Madalyn Murray O’Hair, says heaven is “a delusional dream of the unsophisticated minds of the ill-educated clergy.” Former Harvard professor Alfred North Whitehead asks, “Can you imagine anything more appallingly idiotic than the Christian idea of heaven?” Are these statements fair representations of the beliefs of many in our world? Possibly. But according to recent polls conducted by CNN, 81 percent of Americans believe in heaven. So, instead of defending its existence, I want to categorize myself among the “appallingly idiotic” and “ill-educated” and I want to describe this place for you. Solomon wrote, “It is the glory of God to conceal a matter; to search out a matter is the glory of kings.” I’m calling you to be a “king” as you read this, to be someone who searches, who dares to look, and who unlocks the door to the seemingly unknown. The poor of earth are the ones who have no need for heaven. The rich are those whose heart and mind are already there.

What Isn’t There

There will be no more distance. Revelation 21:1 says, “and there was no longer any sea.” In Revelation “sea” and “many waters” were used to describe many peoples, tongues, and languages. And in the ancient world, seas were dangerous places that kept people apart. While there will be astounding diversity in heaven, there will be no racism, no insecurities, no gender gaps, no cultural barriers; no socioeconomic distinctions. Relationships will be restored and from where I stand, that looks pretty good.

There will be no more disorder. Revelation 21:4 says, “He (God) will wipe every tear from their eyes.” And in verse 27 it reads, “Nothing impure will ever enter it…” In heaven there will be no need for hospitals, unemployment offices, prisons, schools, or funeral homes. No divorce, no theft, no gossip, no broken dreams, no anger, no haunting memories, or lifelong regrets. Leave your Kleenex on the countertop because you won’t need it in heaven. Billboards and commercials and the internet and pornography will no longer vie for our attention. No more red light districts, no more Hollywood, no more traffic jams or road work. No more inner city or third world country, no inequality, only fairness and respect for the common good. But most of all…no more Satan! He and his cronies will be prevented access, no backstage passes for that crew, no acquittals, no parole. There really will be order in God’s court.

There will be no more darkness. Revelation 21:23 says, “The city (heaven) does not need the sun or the moon to shine on it, for the glory of God gives it light, and the Lamb is its lamp.” Parents and Police will tell you, nothing good happens after midnight. And the beauty of heaven is that watches won’t need winding, coo-coo clocks really will be antiques and day-timers and palm pilots and yes, even iPhones will be useless. Fast food will become feast food. And you won’t have to rush your dirty laundry to the dry cleaners because we will be given a clean robe, white, pure attire fit for people who live in the presence of God. Daytime, productive time, will rule in heaven.

There will be no more death. Revelation 22:3 says, “No longer will there be any curse.” Heaven is made possible because of a cross and an empty tomb. We are not a chosen people waiting for eternity. We are eternal now because death has been removed from the arsenal of God. His wrath has been redirected, we’ve been set free from the bondage of sin and death, and our souls have been purchased by his blood. The curse no longer applies in heaven! We won’t need insurance! We won’t need to teach our children, “In case of an emergency, dial 9-1-1.” Embalming fluid, mummification, and air-tight caskets will be a thing of the past. Life, God-breathed life will be restored.

What Is There?

A place prepared for you. Jesus said, “I am going there (heaven) to prepare a place for you.” (John 14) Group all of the best amenities of every five star resort on earth and it still won’t match up to the paradise get-away that God is constructing. And the beauty is that you are a co-owner, a co-heir in this venture. We all dream of such luxury, but in heaven it will be a reality. John searched for words; he attempted to describe the infinite with the finite means of language…streets of gold, a foundation made of precious jewels, gates of pearl! And that’s just the city! Heaven is really a picture of Eden. The word, “paradise” finds its origin in an ancient Persian word which means “garden.” And the story of salvation is the story of paradise lost and paradise restored. And you are a character in that story and your name is written on the reservation list by the great Gardener.

A people prepared for eternity. Genesis 1:27 reads, “So God created man in his own image.” Did you know, that you were created for heaven? God separated us from the rest of creation by making us like him. We are creative, loving, intelligent, social people, because God is. And in heaven, we will reach our full, God-given, potential along with every other redeemed citizen. And oh, the conversations we will have. I can’t wait to sit on the porch and share a cup of lemonade with Abraham, Joseph, Moses, David, Jonah, Peter, and Paul. Mothers will be able to hold children who died in cribs. Fathers will embrace sons who died in war. Grandparents will introduce themselves to grandchildren who only knew them through photographs. And we will all be one! No more division! Our hearts will beat with God’s heart and our voices will raise one song.

But more important than all of what has been written to this point, God will be there! The one we have talked about, sung to, read of, and written about; the one who has been debated and mocked; the one who has seemed so distant at times and so close at others. The only one who truly knows each of us by name and by a count of the hairs on our heads! His names are plentiful because he is indescribable. God will be waiting with outstretched arms and we will hear his voice say, “Well done, good and faithful servant. Enter into the joy of your reward.” And our impulse will not be to embrace him as a buddy, but to fall down at his feet in awe. And I suspect that it will be his immense love for us that draws us to our feet to receive his embrace.

Jesus says in Revelation 22, “Behold, I am coming soon…the time is near…” Heaven is better than you think, and with each tick of the clock, its arrival is sooner than you think!

If you’ve haven’t listened to Hillsong United’s new song entitled “Soon”…now is the time to download it!

If you haven’t signed up to help us pack over 1 million meals... what are you waiting for? Seriously, we have an unprecedented opportunity to feed 4,100 children a meal each day for an entire year and all it requires of you and me is 2 hours! 2 hours that will change your life forever! If you need more motivation, read Matthew 25:31-46. This is part of IT, so if you get IT and have IT, then do IT! 2 hours…2 hours…that’s not too much to ask! Sign up now.

Danville

Wow! I knew it was going to be off the charts, but I really had no idea how amazing our campus in Danville would be until I visited this past weekend! Our staff and volunteers have been ranting and raving about the people in Danville for the past 6 weeks and now I know why. There was a Spirit-birthed energy flowing through the hallways and worship and hearts of everyone I met. I was so encouraged by the passion and desire and joy I experienced in each conversation! Our Southland family in Danville has a real burden to love and serve their neighbors and we need to pray for them and continue to support them. If you haven’t been to a weekend worship experience there…what are you waiting for?! Go!!! And after you participate, you have to go to Giovanni’s Pizza! It is a must! I don’t have a clue how I got there, so don’t ask me for directions, but it is worth the $7!!!

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